Whether it's a $4,000
sheitl, a trip to Miami,
or where to send the kids to school, giving into your wife is NOT shalom bayit.
It fact, this shalom
bayit myth is one of the fundamental reasons this blog was founded.
The female dominated
shadkanut industry, the so called "rebbetzins" in women's
"sems," the emotionally castrated men who allow themselves to be walked
all over like doormats, and their rabbeim are to blame for this ab
The word rebbetzin was
not even used as extensively or how it is used now, as recently as 15 years
ago. It is another piece of evidence of the growing infiltration of feminism
into the Litvish world. The liberal
movements of Judaism make no bones about how they hold regarding the role of
women in their communities.
The Litvish world, on
the other hand, flatly denies the existence of their defacto, female
"rabbis" and "poskot" halacha, even though they are glaring
us in the face!
They debate halakhot, which
are not shayach to women at all, with their male shidduch clients, successfully
manipulating them, because their husbands are in complete denial of the
seriousness of what their wives are doing, their denial stemming from this very
myth regarding shalom bayit.
Their rabbeim tell
them to "pull their noses out of their wives business, and stick it into a
sefer where it belongs."
Furthermore, this approach is disrespectful to women.
Men
and men should discuss things PRIVATELY, not making a scene in front of
guests, yet another strategy of manipulation women sometimes employ.
Of course, something else the "shadkaniot" don't tell you. It's the
MAN's responsibility to educate his wife. The man is the man of the
house, not the other way around. The wife follows HIS customs. How can
she know his customs, unless he educates her?
Maybe
some women like being ignored, as long as they get everything they
want. But, we at the Yiddishe believe that women have more substance
than that, at least the women who are worth marrying.
Those men with their noses in a sefer, as a means of escape, are living
in a world, completely devoid of reality.
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